"Imagine your loved one is on Psychosis Island, and you live on another Island, with the rest of the world. A small river separates Psychosis Island and your Island.
Imagine one day your loved one calls across or gives you signs that they are in distress.
You are powerless to help since the river separates you on your Island from Psychosis Island. So you Fall Back on Relationship and revisit good memories together, etc. This is like placing one bridge-building block from your side as you begin to build a bridge. Your loved one responds with a block of their own and moves to close to you. A gap remains between you. Then you Inquire Curiously.
This puts another bridge-building block on your side, and in response they also put another bridge-building block from the Psychosis Island side. Now there is only a small gap in your Bridge.
This gap can be filled by Reviewing the Information, talking through what you understand to be their problem. This commonality of understanding enables the Bridge to be completed. 
Now you can stand together, talk through the Skills they might have, and develop another strategy.
They return to Psychosis Island and Try it out.
This is what putting FIRST skills into action looks like."